Gay Joyalanis morissette came out as pansexual on election day and nobody noticed until the weekend. isn't it ironic.
Gay Joy · by · November 11, 2026

alanis morissette came out as pansexual on election day and nobody noticed until the weekend. isn't it ironic.

Photo: Justin Higuchi from Los Angeles, CA, USA, CC BY 2.0, via Wikimedia Commons

via the Handsome podcast and Gay Times

The episode went up at 5am Pacific on Nov. 3. You may remember Nov. 3 for other reasons. So it took until the weekend for anyone to notice that, about an hour into a conversation with Tig Notaro, Fortune Feimster and Mae Martin on their podcast Handsome, Alanis Morissette came out.

The setup was her catalog. After some talk about the men who inspired the songs, one host, Feimster according to Gay Times, asked whether it had ever made her want to be a lesbian.

"I'm pansexual, so yeah," Morissette said, on tape.

"Wait, you're not really pansexual, are you?" came the follow-up, which Gay Times credits to Notaro. "I am," she said. When the hosts protested that she should have led with it, she had her answer ready: "You know, I like to leave it for the epilogue." And then, the most Alanis sentence ever recorded: "to confuse people on the way out. Is it confusing?"

It is not, babe. Gay Times notes it is the first time she has put a label on it. She was also, per the hosts, Handsome's first in-person guest. Hell of a debut.

Somewhere a 1996 teenager with Jagged Little Pill on cassette is feeling very seen and slightly smug.