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    <lastmod>2026-09-20T21:54:51-04:00</lastmod>
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      <image:title>Meta folded, the WNBA won, and we made a second can</image:title>
      <image:caption>The WNBA won and we made a second can</image:caption>
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    <loc>https://gaywater.com/blogs/the-watering-hole/a-bigot-got-booted-a-million-floated-through-amsterdam-and-kristens-back</loc>
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      <image:title>We ghosted. We&apos;re back. Hi.</image:title>
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    <lastmod>2026-09-20T21:54:44-04:00</lastmod>
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      <image:title>SCOTUS went low, the ballot box went gay, and fall TV&apos;s stacked</image:title>
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    <lastmod>2026-09-20T21:54:42-04:00</lastmod>
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      <image:title>We Lost Dolly. We Lost Frank-N-Furter. And the South Sent Us to Congress.</image:title>
      <image:caption>A rhinestone-covered guitar and a pair of red platform boots with pearls, on cream</image:caption>
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    <lastmod>2026-09-20T21:54:39-04:00</lastmod>
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      <image:title>He Had a List of Our Bars</image:title>
      <image:caption>A lit memorial candle beside a stamped marriage certificate with two wedding rings</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Hegseth&apos;s High-T rules lasted less than a day</image:title>
      <image:caption>Hegseth&apos;s High-T rules lasted less than a day</image:caption>
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    <lastmod>2026-09-23T10:51:39-04:00</lastmod>
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      <image:title>a judge told the DOJ it cannot make California ban trans girls from sports</image:title>
      <image:caption>a judge told the DOJ it cannot make California ban trans girls from sports</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Gloria Steinem showed up for us in 1977 and never left</image:title>
      <image:caption>Gloria Steinem showed up for us in 1977 and never left</image:caption>
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    <lastmod>2026-10-11T16:33:47-04:00</lastmod>
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      <image:title>Seth Moulton threw trans kids under the bus. Massachusetts ran him over by 30 points.</image:title>
      <image:caption>Seth Moulton threw trans kids under the bus. Massachusetts ran him over by 30 points.</image:caption>
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    <lastmod>2026-09-27T13:59:47-04:00</lastmod>
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      <image:title>Switzerland just said it out loud: ban conversion therapy nationwide</image:title>
      <image:caption>Switzerland just said it out loud: ban conversion therapy nationwide</image:caption>
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    <lastmod>2026-10-13T21:35:21-04:00</lastmod>
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      <image:title>San Diego finally deleted its 1988 bathhouse law</image:title>
      <image:caption>San Diego finally deleted its 1988 bathhouse law</image:caption>
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    <lastmod>2026-10-13T21:35:19-04:00</lastmod>
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      <image:title>she refused to hide the gay books. Arkansas owes her $275,000.</image:title>
      <image:caption>she refused to hide the gay books. Arkansas owes her $275,000.</image:caption>
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    <lastmod>2026-10-14T15:36:49-04:00</lastmod>
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      <image:title>Miley went to the leather bar and brought a camera crew</image:title>
      <image:caption>Miley went to the leather bar and brought a camera crew</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Trixie Mattel says she and Frankie Grande shared Barry Keoghan. She was the rat boy.</image:title>
      <image:caption>Trixie Mattel says she and Frankie Grande shared Barry Keoghan. She was the rat boy.</image:caption>
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    <lastmod>2026-10-15T15:38:16-04:00</lastmod>
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      <image:title>Bulgaria&apos;s top court just told the government to recognize trans people</image:title>
      <image:caption>Bulgaria&apos;s top court just told the government to recognise trans people</image:caption>
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    <lastmod>2026-09-24T13:05:08-04:00</lastmod>
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      <image:title>The Best of Gay Twitter This Week (Vol. 49)</image:title>
      <image:caption>The Best of Gay Twitter This Week, vol. 49</image:caption>
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    <loc>https://gaywater.com/blogs/watering-hole-stories/queer-owned-alcohol-brands</loc>
    <lastmod>2026-10-11T16:33:40-04:00</lastmod>
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      <image:title>28 Queer-Owned Alcohol Brands to Drink Year-Round (Not Just in June)</image:title>
      <image:caption>Flat illustration of canned cocktails, spirits bottles and a wine glass</image:caption>
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    <lastmod>2026-10-05T00:23:45-04:00</lastmod>
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      <image:title>21 attorneys general and a governor just sued over the Medicaid trans care ban</image:title>
      <image:caption>21 attorneys general and a governor just sued over the Medicaid trans care ban</image:caption>
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    <lastmod>2026-10-15T15:38:13-04:00</lastmod>
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      <image:title>Ecuador just banned single gay people from adopting. the vote was 118 to nothing.</image:title>
      <image:caption>Ecuador just banned single gay people from adopting. the vote was 118 to nothing.</image:caption>
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    <lastmod>2026-10-15T13:13:40-04:00</lastmod>
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      <image:title>the Dallas Stars quietly dropped Pride Night. a fan named Tori is throwing her own.</image:title>
      <image:caption>the Dallas Stars quietly dropped Pride Night. a fan named Tori is throwing her own.</image:caption>
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    <lastmod>2026-10-05T00:23:46-04:00</lastmod>
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      <image:title>six days before he died, Vincent asked his sister if anyone would show up. a thousand people did.</image:title>
      <image:caption>six days before he died, Vincent asked his sister if anyone would show up. a thousand people did.</image:caption>
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    <loc>https://gaywater.com/blogs/the-watering-hole/gloria-steinem-got-on-the-plane</loc>
    <lastmod>2026-09-20T21:54:37-04:00</lastmod>
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      <image:title>Gloria Steinem Got on the Plane</image:title>
      <image:caption>The Watering Hole, edition 24, September 6, 2026</image:caption>
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    <lastmod>2026-10-15T15:38:08-04:00</lastmod>
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      <image:title>a Tucson realtor went off at 35,000 feet. first class taped him to his chair.</image:title>
      <image:caption>a Tucson realtor went off at 35,000 feet. first class taped him to his chair.</image:caption>
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    <lastmod>2026-10-06T13:49:29-04:00</lastmod>
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      <image:title>one in three foster kids is queer. the rule that protected them is gone.</image:title>
      <image:caption>one in three foster kids is queer. the rule that protected them is gone.</image:caption>
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    <lastmod>2026-10-05T17:08:14-04:00</lastmod>
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      <image:title>she lost her job over free chest binders. Georgia just paid her $250,000.</image:title>
      <image:caption>she lost her job over free chest binders. Georgia just paid her $250,000.</image:caption>
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    <lastmod>2026-10-15T13:13:34-04:00</lastmod>
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      <image:title>somebody pulled the Pride memorial tree out of the ground. the next day the AfD won a German state.</image:title>
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      <image:title>the federal government published a study arguing that supporting us makes you violent</image:title>
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      <image:title>four men jumped a guy in Lavender Heights. six days later the block threw a party.</image:title>
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      <image:title>a drag king got into the bake off tent. hours later another one got into drag race españa.</image:title>
      <image:caption>a drag king got into the bake off tent. hours later another one got into drag race españa.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>ten italian bishops sat down in the jesuit headquarters to talk about how to treat us</image:title>
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      <image:title>two women tortured Sam Nordquist for a month. on Tuesday both got life without parole.</image:title>
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      <image:title>riley gaines went to one wnba game and was shocked to discover lesbians</image:title>
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      <image:title>nick offerman sat on three years of ben shapiro and then spent it all in one sentence</image:title>
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      <image:title>Alan Cumming beat RuPaul for the hosting Emmy, and a lesbian sci-fi show took four</image:title>
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      <image:title>You Told Them. That Was the Deal.</image:title>
      <image:caption>The Watering Hole, edition 25, September 10, 2026</image:caption>
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      <image:title>trump told a half-empty arena in dallas that we are one of his great sound bites</image:title>
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      <image:title>the bbc canceled drag race uk while season eight was still airing on iplayer</image:title>
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      <image:title>grindr is paying 26 million pounds over the hiv status it handed to advertisers</image:title>
      <image:caption>grindr is paying 26 million pounds over the hiv status it handed to advertisers</image:caption>
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      <image:title>nobody will be charged for the lie that took pete buttigieg&apos;s kids away for a night</image:title>
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      <image:title>gillian anderson asked the question out loud in 2024 and answered it herself this morning</image:title>
      <image:caption>gillian anderson asked the question out loud in 2024 and answered it herself this morning</image:caption>
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      <image:title>nine out of ten queer organizations on earth have lost funding, and four in ten may not survive it</image:title>
      <image:caption>nine out of ten queer organisations on earth have lost funding, and four in ten may not survive it</image:caption>
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    <lastmod>2026-10-13T21:35:02-04:00</lastmod>
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      <image:title>the 9/11 fund will take claims until 2090 and still cannot say whether it pays a same-sex partner</image:title>
      <image:caption>the 9/11 fund will take claims until 2090 and still cannot say whether it pays a same-sex partner</image:caption>
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    <lastmod>2026-10-13T21:35:00-04:00</lastmod>
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      <image:title>james talarico gave away the trans kids on wednesday and ken paxton deepfaked him on thursday anyway</image:title>
      <image:caption>james talarico gave away the trans kids on wednesday and ken paxton deepfaked him on thursday anyway</image:caption>
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    <lastmod>2026-10-11T16:33:24-04:00</lastmod>
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      <image:title>roxanne tickle spent five years proving the law already covered her, and australia&apos;s highest court just closed the case</image:title>
      <image:caption>roxanne tickle spent five years proving the law already covered her, and australia&apos;s highest court just closed the case</image:caption>
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    <lastmod>2026-09-27T13:12:35-04:00</lastmod>
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      <image:title>a denver judge closed the courtroom so colorado&apos;s doctors could testify without their names on it</image:title>
      <image:caption>a denver judge closed the courtroom so colorado&apos;s doctors could testify without their names on it</image:caption>
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    <lastmod>2026-10-15T15:37:42-04:00</lastmod>
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      <image:title>a christian fund with $5.4 billion asked nike&apos;s shareholders to come for trans healthcare and got under one percent</image:title>
      <image:caption>a christian fund with $5.4 billion asked nike&apos;s shareholders to come for trans healthcare and got under one percent</image:caption>
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    <lastmod>2026-10-15T13:13:10-04:00</lastmod>
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      <image:title>580 boxes went to trans ohioans this year, from a nonprofit two people started with $500</image:title>
      <image:caption>580 boxes went to trans ohioans this year, from a nonprofit two people started with $500</image:caption>
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    <lastmod>2026-09-17T10:45:49-04:00</lastmod>
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      <image:title>connecticut children&apos;s signed away a decade of trans care, and the fine was $60,000</image:title>
      <image:caption>connecticut children&apos;s signed away a decade of trans care, and the fine was $60,000</image:caption>
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      <image:title>a cree nation read its 1876 treaty, found a medicine chest in it, and told alberta no</image:title>
      <image:caption>a cree nation read its 1876 treaty, found a medicine chest in it, and told alberta no</image:caption>
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    <lastmod>2026-09-25T22:22:59-04:00</lastmod>
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      <image:title>lilly wachowski said harry potter money is trans genocide money, and rowling&apos;s agent answered within hours</image:title>
      <image:caption>lilly wachowski said harry potter money is trans genocide money, and rowling&apos;s agent answered within hours</image:caption>
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    <lastmod>2026-10-13T21:34:52-04:00</lastmod>
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      <image:title>five months in, hungary&apos;s new government named the first orbán law it will undo, and it&apos;s the gay adoption one</image:title>
      <image:caption>five months in, hungary&apos;s new government named the first orbán law it will undo, and it&apos;s the gay adoption one</image:caption>
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      <image:title>jon husted&apos;s political director spent 2018 dressed as an ss soldier, and the firing came the hour a reporter called</image:title>
      <image:caption>jon husted&apos;s political director spent 2018 dressed as an ss soldier, and the firing came the hour a reporter called</image:caption>
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      <image:title>jason collins signed his will a month after the diagnosis, and left part of it to the kids</image:title>
      <image:caption>jason collins signed his will a month after the diagnosis, and left part of it to the kids</image:caption>
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      <image:title>the squirrel-skinning club survived. the gay club is the one that needed a federal judge.</image:title>
      <image:caption>the squirrel-skinning club survived. the gay club is the one that needed a federal judge.</image:caption>
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    <lastmod>2026-10-02T07:32:13-04:00</lastmod>
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      <image:title>utah&apos;s biggest gay rights group endorsed the republican over the gay guy</image:title>
      <image:caption>utah&apos;s biggest gay rights group endorsed the republican over the gay guy</image:caption>
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  <url>
    <loc>https://gaywater.com/blogs/watering-hole-stories/turkey-my-family-is-safe-raids-lgbti-associations</loc>
    <lastmod>2026-10-05T17:07:39-04:00</lastmod>
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      <image:title>The Kennedy Center Went Dark</image:title>
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      <image:title>turkey detained 150 more people for trying to hold a press conference. the ones already charged are mostly trans women.</image:title>
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      <image:title>a broadway composer gave two schoolboys a love song in 2006 and let them both live. duncan sheik died thursday at 56.</image:title>
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      <image:caption>the gay men&apos;s chorus sang on the kennedy center steps friday and a drag queen worked the mic. the wires covered everything else.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>a dying punk asked his brother if there were any gays like him in rock. the answer is four hours long and it starts today.</image:title>
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      <image:title>coming to chicago? here are the 34 gay bars to know, and the famous strip is less than half of them</image:title>
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      <image:title>The Crime Was Bubbles</image:title>
      <image:caption>The Watering Hole, edition 28</image:caption>
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      <image:title>the longest-serving woman in congress made an ad about trans kids. republicans are the ones calling it a lie.</image:title>
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      <image:caption>three men were stabbed outside a gay bar. a day of speculation later, the police said what it wasn&apos;t.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>rosie o&apos;donnell outed him on live television in 2006. he says he died inside, and he says she meant well.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>a congresswoman answered a sex-scandal complaint by announcing she isn&apos;t a lesbian. we&apos;re not claiming her either.</image:title>
      <image:caption>a congresswoman answered a sex-scandal complaint by announcing she isn&apos;t a lesbian. we&apos;re not claiming her either.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>two more hospitals stopped treating trans kids and paid $9.45 million on the way out. neither admits doing anything wrong.</image:title>
      <image:caption>two more hospitals stopped treating trans kids and paid $9.45 million on the way out. neither admits doing anything wrong.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>every television network walked out of the white house on monday. the reporter still filing works for a gay newspaper.</image:title>
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      <image:title>a cop is on trial for shooting his ex and his ex&apos;s new boyfriend. the case already got the police thrown out of mardi gras.</image:title>
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      <image:title>the network suing the government over censorship told rosie o&apos;donnell no. she ran the segment herself.</image:title>
      <image:caption>the network suing the government over censorship told rosie o&apos;donnell no. she ran the segment herself.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>a bar asked five people to cover up a t-shirt. two weeks later there was bear mace in the fred meyer parking lot.</image:title>
      <image:caption>a bar asked five people to cover up a t-shirt. two weeks later there was bear mace in the fred meyer parking lot.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>a drag king finally made it into the drag race werkroom. the arguing started before the season did.</image:title>
      <image:caption>a drag king finally made it into the drag race werkroom. the arguing started before the season did.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>the face of looksmaxxing has been charged with rape. the gay men and trans women who clocked that subculture got there first.</image:title>
      <image:caption>the face of looksmaxxing has been charged with rape. the gay men and trans women who clocked that subculture got there first.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>coming to miami? there are only 8 gay bars, and that is not us being picky</image:title>
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      <image:title>an actor you have watched on netflix is asking strangers for a job. they need $4,000 by the end of the month or they lose their health insurance.</image:title>
      <image:caption>an actor you have watched on netflix is asking strangers for a job. they need $4,000 by the end of the month or they lose their health insurance.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>the defense secretary called the new military &apos;gender neutral.&apos; then came the slur, and a room of cadets took a beat before it cheered.</image:title>
      <image:caption>the defense secretary called the new military &apos;gender neutral.&apos; then came the slur, and a room of cadets took a beat before it cheered.</image:caption>
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    <lastmod>2026-09-23T09:47:42-04:00</lastmod>
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      <image:title>the un&apos;s human rights chief called it a comprehensive onslaught. then the podium filled with funding pledges, and at least one of them was four months old.</image:title>
      <image:caption>the un&apos;s human rights chief called it a comprehensive onslaught. then the podium filled with funding pledges, and at least one of them was four months old.</image:caption>
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    <lastmod>2026-09-27T13:12:03-04:00</lastmod>
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      <image:title>newsom had a bill that would stop california handing trans care doctors to other states. he vetoed it so the next governor gets to decide.</image:title>
      <image:caption>newsom had a bill that would stop california handing trans care doctors to other states. he vetoed it so the next governor gets to decide.</image:caption>
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    <lastmod>2026-09-23T09:47:43-04:00</lastmod>
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      <image:title>a texas lawmaker tweeted about a university&apos;s gay history archive on friday. by saturday its webpage was gone, and he says the archive is next.</image:title>
      <image:caption>a texas lawmaker tweeted about a university&apos;s gay history archive on friday. by saturday its webpage was gone, and he says the archive is next.</image:caption>
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    <lastmod>2026-10-15T13:12:20-04:00</lastmod>
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      <image:title>meta deleted california&apos;s queer clubs from instagram for months. they came back when reporters and politicians started asking why.</image:title>
      <image:caption>meta deleted california&apos;s queer clubs from instagram for months. they came back when reporters and politicians started asking why.</image:caption>
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    <lastmod>2026-09-23T10:50:31-04:00</lastmod>
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      <image:title>a us senator went to the senate floor to warn you that your pilot might be a furry. his fix is bringing back asylums.</image:title>
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      <image:title>hayden panettiere told us she was bisexual in may. by august she was gone, and now we know how.</image:title>
      <image:caption>hayden panettiere told us she was bisexual in may. by august she was gone, and now we know how.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>the netherlands&apos; first gay prime minister came to new york for the un and spent an evening drinking a beer at stonewall</image:title>
      <image:caption>the netherlands&apos; first gay prime minister came to new york for the un and spent an evening drinking a beer at stonewall</image:caption>
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    <lastmod>2026-09-27T13:11:57-04:00</lastmod>
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      <image:title>california is throwing dolly parton a holiday on friday. on tuesday her estate went to court against the nephew who announced her death.</image:title>
      <image:caption>california is throwing dolly parton a holiday on friday. on tuesday her estate went to court against the nephew who announced her death.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>ken paxton made an attack ad with a viewer warning. the target is a drag queen who isn&apos;t on the ballot.</image:title>
      <image:caption>ken paxton made an attack ad with a viewer warning. the target is a drag queen who isn&apos;t on the ballot.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>three men were stabbed outside a liverpool gay bar on sunday. by wednesday, three men had been charged.</image:title>
      <image:caption>three men were stabbed outside a liverpool gay bar on sunday. by wednesday, three men had been charged.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>a lesbian bar went mask-optional one night a week to make rent. the internet called it eugenics.</image:title>
      <image:caption>a lesbian bar went mask-optional one night a week to make rent. the internet called it eugenics.</image:caption>
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    <lastmod>2026-09-24T15:41:48-04:00</lastmod>
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      <image:title>texas a&amp;m banned drag shows to protect women. a judge asked if any women had complained. texas said no.</image:title>
      <image:caption>texas a&amp;m banned drag shows to protect women. a judge asked if any women had complained. texas said no.</image:caption>
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    <lastmod>2026-10-15T15:36:41-04:00</lastmod>
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      <image:title>two men asked a college student if he was gay. prosecutors say they then punched him in the head more than two dozen times.</image:title>
      <image:caption>two men asked a college student if he was gay. prosecutors say they then punched him in the head more than two dozen times.</image:caption>
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    <lastmod>2026-10-15T13:12:04-04:00</lastmod>
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      <image:title>27 celebrities who came out in 2026. one did it on valentine&apos;s day. one did it at a gay bar&apos;s birthday party.</image:title>
      <image:caption>13 celebrities who came out in 2026. one did it on valentine&apos;s day. one did it at a gay bar&apos;s birthday party.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>a pop star was pregnant, hormonal and watching the gay hockey show. her son is named ilya.</image:title>
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      <image:caption>a gay leather bar opened in las vegas in 1988 and outlasted the apps, the internet and a gaming fine. it closes wednesday.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>a tennessee county fired its library director for leaving gay books in the kids&apos; section. now it&apos;s her turn.</image:title>
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      <image:title>a minnesota school board banned a sticker the size of a business card. two families are suing.</image:title>
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      <image:caption>a democrat running for senate is accused of using the f-slur on her staff. her first defender was george santos, using it too.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>a parent complained a character in the school play might be gay. carrie coon&apos;s old high school canceled it two days into rehearsal.</image:title>
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      <image:title>jamie dimon allegedly said he could be 17 percent gay. the co-chair of his bank&apos;s pride group says he was pushed out over a $40 uber.</image:title>
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      <image:title>ryan murphy finished a glee reboot an hour before a party. nobody talk to me.</image:title>
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      <image:title>cape town&apos;s gay nude beach has been clothing optional for decades. now the signs say the drones are watching.</image:title>
      <image:caption>cape town&apos;s gay nude beach has been clothing optional for decades. now the signs say the drones are watching.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>the archbishop reminded his church it prays for avocados. it still would not pray for same-sex couples, by seven votes.</image:title>
      <image:caption>the archbishop reminded his church it prays for avocados. it still would not pray for same-sex couples, by seven votes.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>the day a tamil movie opened with two men kissing, another director announced that queer cinema is an ngo plot</image:title>
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      <image:caption>nikki glaser told a joke about a trans influencer&apos;s body. the influencer says she already had tickets to her november show.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>a trans priest preached that jesus transitioned. in march. the right found out this week.</image:title>
      <image:caption>a trans priest preached that jesus transitioned. in march. the right found out this week.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Your Pilot Might Be a Furry</image:title>
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      <image:title>the first trans man on drag race was arrested after a porsche met three parked cars. we are begging you to call an uber.</image:title>
      <image:caption>the first trans man on drag race was arrested after a porsche met three parked cars. we are begging you to call an uber.</image:caption>
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    <loc>https://gaywater.com/blogs/watering-hole-stories/openly-gay-nfl-nba-mlb-nhl-players</loc>
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      <image:title>every openly gay man who has played in america&apos;s four big leagues fits on one page. the number playing right now is zero.</image:title>
      <image:caption>every openly gay man who has played in america&apos;s four big leagues fits on one page. the number playing right now is zero.</image:caption>
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    <loc>https://gaywater.com/blogs/watering-hole-stories/troye-sivan-elliot-page-brandon-flynn-new-york-magazine-russian-turkish-baths</loc>
    <lastmod>2026-10-09T19:58:15-04:00</lastmod>
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      <image:title>new york magazine sent troye sivan and elliot page to a 194-degree bathhouse for its first men&apos;s issue. we&apos;ll be in the steam room.</image:title>
      <image:caption>new york magazine sent troye sivan and elliot page to a 194-degree bathhouse for its first men&apos;s issue. we&apos;ll be in the steam room.</image:caption>
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  <url>
    <loc>https://gaywater.com/blogs/watering-hole-stories/rui-takahashi-comes-out-gay-ran-takahashi-volleyball</loc>
    <lastmod>2026-09-30T13:06:14-04:00</lastmod>
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      <image:title>a japanese volleyball player just came out as gay, and he says his superstar little brother is the reason. we&apos;re fine. we&apos;re totally fine.</image:title>
      <image:caption>a japanese volleyball player just came out as gay, and he says his superstar little brother is the reason. we&apos;re fine. we&apos;re totally fine.</image:caption>
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  <url>
    <loc>https://gaywater.com/blogs/watering-hole-stories/trump-supreme-court-trans-prisoners-hormones-wigs-kingdom</loc>
    <lastmod>2026-10-15T15:36:07-04:00</lastmod>
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      <image:title>the trump administration asked the supreme court for permission to confiscate wigs from trans prisoners. i need everyone to read that twice.</image:title>
      <image:caption>the trump administration asked the supreme court for permission to confiscate wigs from trans prisoners. i need everyone to read that twice.</image:caption>
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  <url>
    <loc>https://gaywater.com/blogs/watering-hole-stories/hayden-panettiere-wladimir-klitschko-guardianship-kaya-estate</loc>
    <lastmod>2026-09-30T13:06:05-04:00</lastmod>
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      <image:title>hayden panettiere&apos;s ex has asked a court to let him guard their 11-year-old&apos;s inheritance, and his filing says it&apos;s urgent. oh, kaya.</image:title>
      <image:caption>hayden panettiere&apos;s ex has asked a court to let him guard their 11-year-old&apos;s inheritance, and his filing says it&apos;s urgent. oh, kaya.</image:caption>
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    <loc>https://gaywater.com/blogs/watering-hole-stories/camryn-manheim-gay-son-hrc-dinner-milo-manheim-marcia-gay-harden</loc>
    <lastmod>2026-10-15T13:11:27-04:00</lastmod>
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      <image:title>an actress told a gay gala she always wanted a gay son, and the right-wing internet is calling it child abuse. babe, it was a toast.</image:title>
      <image:caption>an actress told a gay gala she always wanted a gay son, and the right-wing internet is calling it child abuse. babe, it was a toast.</image:caption>
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    <loc>https://gaywater.com/blogs/watering-hole-stories/ana-brnabic-acting-president-serbia-lesbian-vucic-resigns</loc>
    <lastmod>2026-09-30T13:06:09-04:00</lastmod>
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      <image:title>serbia&apos;s president quit to run for prime minister, so a lesbian is running the country for up to three months. the activists have notes.</image:title>
      <image:caption>serbia&apos;s president quit to run for prime minister, so a lesbian is running the country for up to three months. the activists have notes.</image:caption>
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  <url>
    <loc>https://gaywater.com/blogs/watering-hole-stories/riley-gaines-ncaa-lawsuit-title-ix-ruling-judge-tiffany-johnson</loc>
    <lastmod>2026-09-30T13:06:08-04:00</lastmod>
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      <image:title>riley gaines spent two years suing the ncaa over a trans swimmer and lost on a technicality about concussion research. we&apos;ll allow it.</image:title>
      <image:caption>riley gaines spent two years suing the ncaa over a trans swimmer and lost on a technicality about concussion research. we&apos;ll allow it.</image:caption>
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    <loc>https://gaywater.com/blogs/the-watering-hole/his-little-brother-is-the-reason</loc>
    <lastmod>2026-09-30T11:20:57-04:00</lastmod>
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      <image:title>His Little Brother Is the Reason</image:title>
      <image:caption>A rainbow volleyball beside a scoreboard showing zero</image:caption>
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    <loc>https://gaywater.com/blogs/watering-hole-stories/heated-rivalry-irina-foundation-real-charity-jacob-tierney-brendan-brady</loc>
    <lastmod>2026-10-14T15:35:27-04:00</lastmod>
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      <image:title>the gay hockey show&apos;s fictional charity is a real one now. we&apos;re fine. we&apos;re totally fine.</image:title>
      <image:caption>the gay hockey show&apos;s fictional charity is a real one now. we&apos;re fine. we&apos;re totally fine.</image:caption>
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  <url>
    <loc>https://gaywater.com/blogs/watering-hole-stories/russell-t-davies-boyfriend-27-oliver-how-to-fail-podcast</loc>
    <lastmod>2026-10-15T13:11:20-04:00</lastmod>
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      <image:title>the man who made queer as folk is 63 and his boyfriend is 27. he said it before you could: &quot;ridiculous, i know.&quot;</image:title>
      <image:caption>the man who made queer as folk is 63 and his boyfriend is 27. he said it before you could: &quot;ridiculous, i know.&quot;</image:caption>
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    <loc>https://gaywater.com/blogs/watering-hole-stories/19th-yougov-poll-trans-athletes-gender-affirming-care-69-percent-dont-know-trans-person</loc>
    <lastmod>2026-10-09T19:58:09-04:00</lastmod>
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      <image:title>69 percent of americans say they don&apos;t know a single trans person. they have so many opinions anyway.</image:title>
      <image:caption>69 percent of americans say they don&apos;t know a single trans person. they have so many opinions anyway.</image:caption>
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  <url>
    <loc>https://gaywater.com/blogs/watering-hole-stories/sophia-bush-ashlyn-harris-married-secret-wedding-memoir</loc>
    <lastmod>2026-10-01T07:12:30-04:00</lastmod>
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      <image:title>sophia bush and ashlyn harris got married over a year ago and simply didn&apos;t tell us. rude. gorgeous, but rude.</image:title>
      <image:caption>sophia bush and ashlyn harris got married over a year ago and simply didn&apos;t tell us. rude. gorgeous, but rude.</image:caption>
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  <url>
    <loc>https://gaywater.com/blogs/watering-hole-stories/jesse-watters-hasan-piker-maid-outfit-here-kitty-fox-news</loc>
    <lastmod>2026-10-14T15:35:22-04:00</lastmod>
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      <image:title>jesse watters looked at a man in a french maid outfit and said &quot;here kitty, kitty.&quot; on air. on purpose.</image:title>
      <image:caption>jesse watters looked at a man in a french maid outfit and said &quot;here kitty, kitty.&quot; on air. on purpose.</image:caption>
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    <loc>https://gaywater.com/blogs/watering-hole-stories/988-press-3-lgbtq-youth-suicide-lifeline-restored-baldwin</loc>
    <lastmod>2026-10-01T07:59:04-04:00</lastmod>
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      <image:title>the lgbtq youth crisis line is back after 14 months. it took an act of congress. we still don&apos;t know who picks up.</image:title>
      <image:caption>the lgbtq youth crisis line is back after 14 months. it took an act of congress. we still don&apos;t know who picks up.</image:caption>
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    <loc>https://gaywater.com/blogs/watering-hole-stories/hegseth-quantico-state-of-the-force-anti-trans-slur-beardos</loc>
    <lastmod>2026-10-15T09:59:28-04:00</lastmod>
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      <image:title>pete hegseth used the same anti-trans slur for the third time in six weeks. it&apos;s not a slip anymore. it&apos;s his tight five.</image:title>
      <image:caption>pete hegseth used the same anti-trans slur for the third time in six weeks. it&apos;s not a slip anymore. it&apos;s his tight five.</image:caption>
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  <url>
    <loc>https://gaywater.com/blogs/watering-hole-stories/gay-country-singers</loc>
    <lastmod>2026-10-09T09:26:41-04:00</lastmod>
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      <image:title>20 openly gay country singers. the first album pressed 1,000 copies and vanished for 40 years.</image:title>
      <image:caption>the first gay country album pressed 1,000 copies in 1973. we counted the out stars who came after it. yeehaw.</image:caption>
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  <url>
    <loc>https://gaywater.com/blogs/watering-hole-stories/esther-rantzen-dies-86-childline-lgbtq-young-people</loc>
    <lastmod>2026-10-02T07:31:04-04:00</lastmod>
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      <image:title>the woman who gave british kids a number to call when they had nobody to tell has died at 86. thank you for picking up.</image:title>
      <image:caption>the woman who gave british kids a number to call when they had nobody to tell has died at 86. thank you for picking up.</image:caption>
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  <url>
    <loc>https://gaywater.com/blogs/watering-hole-stories/blue-moon-pittsburgh-blackface-drag-open-stage-canceled-death-threats</loc>
    <lastmod>2026-10-15T13:11:11-04:00</lastmod>
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      <image:title>a drag performer wore blackface at a pittsburgh gay bar. in 2026. the apology had to say &quot;blackface is not ok!&quot; out loud.</image:title>
      <image:caption>a drag performer wore blackface at a pittsburgh gay bar. in 2026. the apology had to say &quot;blackface is not ok!&quot; out loud.</image:caption>
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  <url>
    <loc>https://gaywater.com/blogs/watering-hole-stories/aaron-bernstine-malcolm-kenyatta-slur-harrisburg-bar-resign</loc>
    <lastmod>2026-10-02T07:31:01-04:00</lastmod>
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      <image:title>a republican allegedly used a slur about his gay colleague at a democratic fundraiser. if true, bold choice of venue.</image:title>
      <image:caption>a republican allegedly used a slur about his gay colleague at a democratic fundraiser. if true, bold choice of venue.</image:caption>
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  <url>
    <loc>https://gaywater.com/blogs/watering-hole-stories/kulwicki-wellstar-fertility-benefits-lesbian-lawsuit-dismissed-bostock</loc>
    <lastmod>2026-10-11T16:32:08-04:00</lastmod>
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      <image:title>a hospital&apos;s fertility plan gave straight couples a free way in and lesbians a bill. a judge says that&apos;s fine, because men get nothing either. thrilled for us.</image:title>
      <image:caption>a hospital&apos;s fertility plan gave straight couples a free way in and lesbians a bill. a judge says that&apos;s fine, because men get nothing either. thrilled for us.</image:caption>
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  <url>
    <loc>https://gaywater.com/blogs/watering-hole-stories/sc-arts-commission-greenville-gay-mens-chorus-proud-mary-grants-denied</loc>
    <lastmod>2026-10-05T00:21:59-04:00</lastmod>
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      <image:title>south carolina funded nearly 180 arts groups and said no to exactly two. you will never guess which two.</image:title>
      <image:caption>south carolina funded nearly 180 arts groups and said no to exactly two. you will never guess which two.</image:caption>
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  <url>
    <loc>https://gaywater.com/blogs/watering-hole-stories/grindr-buys-freddie-prep-clinic-250-million-purposemed</loc>
    <lastmod>2026-10-05T00:22:05-04:00</lastmod>
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      <image:title>grindr is spending $250 million on a prep clinic. so it&apos;s your doctor now. okay, babe.</image:title>
      <image:caption>grindr is spending $250 million on a prep clinic. so it&apos;s your doctor now. okay, babe.</image:caption>
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  <url>
    <loc>https://gaywater.com/blogs/watering-hole-stories/kobach-sb-244-hearing-trans-social-media-posts-privacy-kansas</loc>
    <lastmod>2026-10-06T13:47:47-04:00</lastmod>
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      <image:title>kansas&apos;s attorney general told a court that trans people who posted about being trans gave up their privacy. so posting is consent now. noted.</image:title>
      <image:caption>kansas&apos;s attorney general told a court that trans people who posted about being trans gave up their privacy. so posting is consent now. noted.</image:caption>
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  </url>
  <url>
    <loc>https://gaywater.com/blogs/watering-hole-stories/turbocam-lillian-bernier-trans-health-plan-title-vii-trial</loc>
    <lastmod>2026-10-05T17:05:30-04:00</lastmod>
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      <image:title>a christian factory owner kept calling his trans employee &quot;him&quot; under oath. that is why she gets a trial now. thank you, sir.</image:title>
      <image:caption>a christian factory owner kept calling his trans employee &quot;him&quot; under oath. that is why she gets a trial now. thank you, sir.</image:caption>
    </image:image>
  </url>
  <url>
    <loc>https://gaywater.com/blogs/watering-hole-stories/missouri-amendment-3-her-health-her-future-trans-ads-abortion</loc>
    <lastmod>2026-10-05T00:21:58-04:00</lastmod>
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      <image:title>missouri&apos;s anti-abortion campaign has posted 20 times since august. it said the word &quot;abortion&quot; once. we see you, babe.</image:title>
      <image:caption>missouri&apos;s anti-abortion campaign has posted 20 times since august. it said the word &quot;abortion&quot; once. we see you, babe.</image:caption>
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  </url>
  <url>
    <loc>https://gaywater.com/blogs/watering-hole-stories/trump-dennis-rodman-enes-kanter-freedom-wnba-full-pardon-oklahoma-rally</loc>
    <lastmod>2026-10-13T21:33:37-04:00</lastmod>
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      <image:title>trump banned men from women&apos;s sports. then he gave two of them a &quot;full pardon&quot; at a rally. make it make sense.</image:title>
      <image:caption>trump banned men from women&apos;s sports. then he gave two of them a &quot;full pardon&quot; at a rally. make it make sense.</image:caption>
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  </url>
  <url>
    <loc>https://gaywater.com/blogs/watering-hole-stories/steve-hilton-lesbian-ad-just-try-it-california-governor</loc>
    <lastmod>2026-10-09T11:27:36-04:00</lastmod>
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      <image:title>a republican running for governor made a sapphic first-time ad, and the forbidden thing is voting for him. i need to lie down.</image:title>
      <image:caption>a republican running for governor made a sapphic first-time ad, and the forbidden thing is voting for him. i need to lie down.</image:caption>
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  <url>
    <loc>https://gaywater.com/blogs/watering-hole-stories/misua-drag-race-philippines-season-4-died-during-filming-tribute-episode</loc>
    <lastmod>2026-10-05T00:22:08-04:00</lastmod>
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      <image:title>a drag race queen died in her sleep in the middle of filming. this week the show aired her episode, with a yellow dragon for her.</image:title>
      <image:caption>a drag race queen died in her sleep in the middle of filming. this week the show aired her episode, with a yellow dragon for her.</image:caption>
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    <loc>https://gaywater.com/blogs/watering-hole-stories/elon-musk-death-sentence-gender-affirming-care-james-esses-reply</loc>
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      <image:title>elon musk answered a speech about trans surgery with &quot;death sentence.&quot; he said it in may too. we checked.</image:title>
      <image:caption>elon musk answered a speech about trans surgery with &quot;death sentence.&quot; he said it in may too. we checked.</image:caption>
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  <url>
    <loc>https://gaywater.com/blogs/watering-hole-stories/bishop-mariann-budde-resigns-2028-have-mercy-trump-sermon</loc>
    <lastmod>2026-10-15T15:35:41-04:00</lastmod>
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      <image:title>the bishop who told trump to have mercy on gay and trans kids is stepping down. in 2028. she&apos;s not done with him yet.</image:title>
      <image:caption>the bishop who told trump to have mercy on gay and trans kids is stepping down. in 2028. she&apos;s not done with him yet.</image:caption>
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  <url>
    <loc>https://gaywater.com/blogs/watering-hole-stories/supreme-court-st-mary-catholic-parish-v-roy-colorado-preschool-same-sex-parents</loc>
    <lastmod>2026-10-05T00:22:06-04:00</lastmod>
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      <image:title>the supreme court will decide if a catholic preschool can take state money and turn away kids with two moms. argument is on election day. of course it is.</image:title>
      <image:caption>the supreme court will decide if a catholic preschool can take state money and turn away kids with two moms. argument is on election day. of course it is.</image:caption>
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  <url>
    <loc>https://gaywater.com/blogs/watering-hole-stories/taipei-police-raid-gay-bar-commander-d-51-detained-protest-pride</loc>
    <lastmod>2026-10-15T13:10:56-04:00</lastmod>
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      <image:title>taiwan has had marriage equality since 2019. on saturday taipei police raided a gay bar and took 51 people in. pride is in four weeks. we&apos;re sorry, what?</image:title>
      <image:caption>taiwan has had marriage equality since 2019. on saturday taipei police raided a gay bar and took 51 people in. pride is in four weeks. we&apos;re sorry, what?</image:caption>
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  <url>
    <loc>https://gaywater.com/blogs/watering-hole-stories/mad-sandhu-lgbtq-makeup-artist-influencer-shot-dead-amritsar</loc>
    <lastmod>2026-10-13T21:33:32-04:00</lastmod>
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      <image:title>an lgbtq makeup artist in punjab was shot dead on saturday while he waited for his car to be washed. he had been threatened in july. we&apos;re heartbroken.</image:title>
      <image:caption>an lgbtq makeup artist in punjab was shot dead on saturday while he waited for his car to be washed. he had been threatened in july. we&apos;re heartbroken.</image:caption>
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  <url>
    <loc>https://gaywater.com/blogs/watering-hole-stories/paris-pride-2026-october-heatwave-postponed-far-right-marche-des-fiertes</loc>
    <lastmod>2026-10-15T15:35:45-04:00</lastmod>
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      <image:title>paris pride got canceled in june because it was 40 degrees. it came back on saturday with a sign that said &quot;less RN, more lesbians.&quot; worth the wait.</image:title>
      <image:caption>paris pride got canceled in june because it was 40 degrees. it came back on saturday with a sign that said &quot;less RN, more lesbians.&quot; worth the wait.</image:caption>
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  <url>
    <loc>https://gaywater.com/blogs/watering-hole-stories/joseph-logiudice-liberation-psychotherapy-indicted-gay-mens-therapy-manhattan</loc>
    <lastmod>2026-10-15T15:35:35-04:00</lastmod>
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      <image:title>the founder of an lgbtq therapy practice in manhattan has been indicted for sexually assaulting two patients. he is the second therapist there charged since september.</image:title>
      <image:caption>the founder of an lgbtq therapy practice in manhattan has been indicted for sexually assaulting two patients. he is the second therapist there charged since september.</image:caption>
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  <url>
    <loc>https://gaywater.com/blogs/the-watering-hole/two-men-one-pardon</loc>
    <lastmod>2026-10-04T21:07:49-04:00</lastmod>
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      <image:title>Two Men, One Pardon</image:title>
      <image:caption>A basketball beside a sealed official scroll</image:caption>
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  <url>
    <loc>https://gaywater.com/blogs/the-watering-hole/best-of-gay-twitter-vol-54</loc>
    <lastmod>2026-10-04T21:59:22-04:00</lastmod>
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  <url>
    <loc>https://gaywater.com/blogs/watering-hole-stories/tom-daley-drag-plastique-tiara-beauty-bar-dustin-lance-black</loc>
    <lastmod>2026-10-05T17:05:23-04:00</lastmod>
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      <image:title>tom daley did drag for the first time and his husband&apos;s review was &quot;i&apos;m straight now.&quot; dustin, same.</image:title>
      <image:caption>tom daley did drag for the first time and his husband&apos;s review was &quot;i&apos;m straight now.&quot; dustin, same.</image:caption>
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  <url>
    <loc>https://gaywater.com/blogs/watering-hole-stories/kyle-maclachlan-showgirls-paul-verhoeven-erection-memoir-fictional-selves</loc>
    <lastmod>2026-10-13T21:33:24-04:00</lastmod>
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      <image:title>the showgirls director offered to paint kyle maclachlan an erection &quot;any size you vant.&quot; he checked his contract. we checked our pulse.</image:title>
      <image:caption>the showgirls director offered to paint kyle maclachlan an erection &quot;any size you vant.&quot; he checked his contract. we checked our pulse.</image:caption>
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  <url>
    <loc>https://gaywater.com/blogs/watering-hole-stories/lgbt-migrants-deported-third-countries-reuters-sierra-leone-cameroon-eswatini</loc>
    <lastmod>2026-10-08T13:32:19-04:00</lastmod>
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      <image:title>the us agreed 40 lgbt migrants would be persecuted at home. then it deported them to countries that criminalize or abuse gay people. read that twice.</image:title>
      <image:caption>the us agreed 40 lgbt migrants would be persecuted at home. then it deported them to countries that criminalize or abuse gay people. read that twice.</image:caption>
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    <loc>https://gaywater.com/blogs/watering-hole-stories/ben-weyts-aide-fake-gay-muslim-op-ed-mohammed-el-idrissi</loc>
    <lastmod>2026-10-15T15:35:30-04:00</lastmod>
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      <image:title>a belgian minister&apos;s aide invented a gay muslim to prove a point about the media. he left his real name in the file. i&apos;m on the floor.</image:title>
      <image:caption>a belgian minister&apos;s aide invented a gay muslim to prove a point about the media. he left his real name in the file. i&apos;m on the floor.</image:caption>
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  <url>
    <loc>https://gaywater.com/blogs/watering-hole-stories/eeoc-marc-seawright-transgender-director-lawsuit-andrea-lucas-motion-denied</loc>
    <lastmod>2026-10-05T17:05:14-04:00</lastmod>
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      <image:title>the agency that polices workplace discrimination is being sued for it by its own trans director, and a judge just let the case go ahead. sit with that.</image:title>
      <image:caption>the agency that polices workplace discrimination is being sued for it by its own trans director, and a judge just let the case go ahead. sit with that.</image:caption>
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  <url>
    <loc>https://gaywater.com/blogs/watering-hole-stories/riley-williams-clayton-county-drew-high-transgender-homecoming-queen-title-ix</loc>
    <lastmod>2026-10-05T17:05:16-04:00</lastmod>
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      <image:title>a georgia high school told a trans girl she could run for homecoming king instead. be so serious.</image:title>
      <image:caption>a georgia high school told a trans girl she could run for homecoming king instead. be so serious.</image:caption>
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  </url>
  <url>
    <loc>https://gaywater.com/blogs/watering-hole-stories/samuel-alito-obergefell-same-sex-marriage-cbs-interview-reliance</loc>
    <lastmod>2026-10-06T12:39:37-04:00</lastmod>
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      <image:title>samuel alito says gay marriage is different from roe because we actually went and got married. the joint checking account is doing the lord&apos;s work.</image:title>
      <image:caption>samuel alito says gay marriage is different from roe because we actually went and got married. the joint checking account is doing the lord&apos;s work.</image:caption>
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  <url>
    <loc>https://gaywater.com/blogs/watering-hole-stories/thabatta-pimenta-erika-hilton-duda-salabert-brazil-trans-deputies-2026</loc>
    <lastmod>2026-10-15T15:35:25-04:00</lastmod>
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      <image:title>brazil just sent three trans women to congress, and one of them got 1.6 million votes. we would like to be governed like this.</image:title>
      <image:caption>brazil just sent three trans women to congress, and one of them got 1.6 million votes. we would like to be governed like this.</image:caption>
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  </url>
  <url>
    <loc>https://gaywater.com/blogs/watering-hole-stories/sherrod-brown-jon-husted-soren-aldaco-ad-trump-ohio-rally-transgender</loc>
    <lastmod>2026-10-11T16:31:50-04:00</lastmod>
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      <image:loc>https://cdn.shopify.com/s/files/1/0691/4801/6879/articles/adfe5622379e57554a07beaa28b6c5ee.jpg?v=1791235113</image:loc>
      <image:title>republicans are spending $10 million in ohio on an ad about surgery on kids. the woman in it was 19. math is hard.</image:title>
      <image:caption>republicans are spending $10 million in ohio on an ad about surgery on kids. the woman in it was 19. math is hard.</image:caption>
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  </url>
  <url>
    <loc>https://gaywater.com/blogs/watering-hole-stories/lgbtq-members-of-congress</loc>
    <lastmod>2026-10-09T17:09:57-04:00</lastmod>
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      <image:title>there are 14 out lgbtq people in congress right now. one of them only gets four months. we checked who&apos;s on your ballot.</image:title>
      <image:caption>there are 14 out lgbtq people in congress right now. one of them only gets four months. we checked who&apos;s on your ballot.</image:caption>
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  </url>
  <url>
    <loc>https://gaywater.com/blogs/watering-hole-stories/trump-annie-andrews-anti-trans-slur-darline-graham-south-carolina-senate</loc>
    <lastmod>2026-10-07T15:07:10-04:00</lastmod>
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      <image:title>trump called a pediatrician and mom of three a trans slur, three times, in one post. the polls have the race tied. smells like panic.</image:title>
      <image:caption>trump called a pediatrician and mom of three a trans slur, three times, in one post. the polls have the race tied. smells like panic.</image:caption>
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  </url>
  <url>
    <loc>https://gaywater.com/blogs/watering-hole-stories/jim-bakker-dies-86-tammy-faye-gay-icon-ptl</loc>
    <lastmod>2026-10-06T13:47:35-04:00</lastmod>
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      <image:title>a televangelist who went to prison for fraud has died at 86. his ex-wife is the one the gays still light candles for.</image:title>
      <image:caption>a televangelist who went to prison for fraud has died at 86. his ex-wife is the one the gays still light candles for.</image:caption>
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  </url>
  <url>
    <loc>https://gaywater.com/blogs/watering-hole-stories/australia-adf-historical-homosexual-service-convictions-extinguished-keogh</loc>
    <lastmod>2026-10-06T13:47:34-04:00</lastmod>
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      <image:title>australian soldiers convicted for gay sex can finally have it wiped from their records. it only took 34 years. we&apos;ll take it.</image:title>
      <image:caption>australian soldiers convicted for gay sex can finally have it wiped from their records. it only took 34 years. we&apos;ll take it.</image:caption>
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  </url>
  <url>
    <loc>https://gaywater.com/blogs/watering-hole-stories/scott-bessent-melania-trump-friends-hearts-gay-axios</loc>
    <lastmod>2026-10-06T19:08:44-04:00</lastmod>
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      <image:title>trump keeps having to tell melania&apos;s friends that the treasury secretary is gay. what a job.</image:title>
      <image:caption>trump keeps having to tell melania&apos;s friends that the treasury secretary is gay. what a job.</image:caption>
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  </url>
  <url>
    <loc>https://gaywater.com/blogs/watering-hole-stories/andrew-garfield-sam-altman-artificial-demon-twink-guadagnino-review</loc>
    <lastmod>2026-10-11T16:31:45-04:00</lastmod>
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      <image:title>luca guadagnino cast spider-man as sam altman and the first review called it a &quot;demon twink.&quot; we&apos;re seated.</image:title>
      <image:caption>luca guadagnino cast spider-man as sam altman and the first review called it a &quot;demon twink.&quot; we&apos;re seated.</image:caption>
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  </url>
  <url>
    <loc>https://gaywater.com/blogs/watering-hole-stories/ninth-circuit-arizona-transgender-birth-certificate-roe-v-johnston-oklahoma-fowler-v-stitt</loc>
    <lastmod>2026-10-15T09:58:51-04:00</lastmod>
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      <image:title>arizona won its trans birth certificate case today. trans arizonans may have won it too.</image:title>
      <image:caption>arizona won its trans birth certificate case today. trans arizonans may have won it too.</image:caption>
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  </url>
  <url>
    <loc>https://gaywater.com/blogs/watering-hole-stories/hudson-williams-cardigan-justin-jacob-louis-section-35-cree-designer</loc>
    <lastmod>2026-10-07T15:07:03-04:00</lastmod>
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      <image:title>a heated rivalry star paid full price for a cree designer&apos;s cardigan. it sold $12,000 in an hour. this is the assignment.</image:title>
      <image:caption>a heated rivalry star paid full price for a cree designer&apos;s cardigan. it sold $12,000 in an hour. this is the assignment.</image:caption>
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  </url>
  <url>
    <loc>https://gaywater.com/blogs/watering-hole-stories/nyc-mamdani-8-9-million-gender-affirming-care-minors-callen-lorde-intent-to-award</loc>
    <lastmod>2026-10-07T15:07:04-04:00</lastmod>
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      <image:title>the new york post says mamdani signed $8.9 million for trans kids&apos; care. nobody has signed anything. we read the paperwork so you don&apos;t have to.</image:title>
      <image:caption>the new york post says mamdani signed $8.9 million for trans kids&apos; care. nobody has signed anything. we read the paperwork so you don&apos;t have to.</image:caption>
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  <url>
    <loc>https://gaywater.com/blogs/watering-hole-stories/michael-kearns-dies-76-gay-actor-hiv-positive-happy-hustler</loc>
    <lastmod>2026-10-08T13:32:04-04:00</lastmod>
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      <image:title>he came out as gay in the &apos;70s and as hiv-positive on tv in 1991. he was booked for a coming out day show this sunday. somebody read his lines.</image:title>
      <image:caption>he came out as gay in the &apos;70s and as hiv-positive on tv in 1991. he was booked for a coming out day show this sunday. somebody read his lines.</image:caption>
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  <url>
    <loc>https://gaywater.com/blogs/watering-hole-stories/growlr-sold-perry-street-scruff-live-streaming-removed</loc>
    <lastmod>2026-10-08T13:31:58-04:00</lastmod>
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      <image:title>the bear app got sold and lost its live streams in the same 24 hours. the new owners say: not us. be so for real.</image:title>
      <image:caption>the bear app got sold and lost its live streams in the same 24 hours. the new owners say: not us. be so for real.</image:caption>
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  <url>
    <loc>https://gaywater.com/blogs/watering-hole-stories/angie-craig-wnba-commissioner-middle-aged-lesbian-dream-job-cathy-engelbert</loc>
    <lastmod>2026-10-08T13:32:07-04:00</lastmod>
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      <image:title>a lesbian congresswoman lost her senate race and has applied, on the radio, to run the wnba. honestly? hire her.</image:title>
      <image:caption>a lesbian congresswoman lost her senate race and has applied, on the radio, to run the wnba. honestly? hire her.</image:caption>
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  </url>
  <url>
    <loc>https://gaywater.com/blogs/watering-hole-stories/first-circuit-doj-subpoena-boston-childrens-rhode-island-hospital-transgender-care</loc>
    <lastmod>2026-10-15T15:35:10-04:00</lastmod>
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      <image:title>the justice department wants trans kids&apos; medical records from two hospitals. an appeals judge asked if this is all just a pressure campaign. say it louder.</image:title>
      <image:caption>the justice department wants trans kids&apos; medical records from two hospitals. an appeals judge asked if this is all just a pressure campaign. say it louder.</image:caption>
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  </url>
  <url>
    <loc>https://gaywater.com/blogs/watering-hole-stories/bbc-apology-pinknews-benjamin-cohen-anthony-james-high-court-libel</loc>
    <lastmod>2026-10-13T21:33:13-04:00</lastmod>
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      <image:loc>https://cdn.shopify.com/s/files/1/0691/4801/6879/articles/4b34f6f0cdbf45b7386d953a4f66991d.jpg?v=1791462365</image:loc>
      <image:title>the bbc told millions that two gay men pressured their staff to be surrogates. today it apologized unreservedly in the high court. took them two years.</image:title>
      <image:caption>the bbc told millions that two gay men pressured their staff to be surrogates. today it apologized unreservedly in the high court. took them two years.</image:caption>
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  </url>
  <url>
    <loc>https://gaywater.com/blogs/watering-hole-stories/ahmed-soliman-gay-phoenix-man-deported-equatorial-guinea-judge-hinderaker-return</loc>
    <lastmod>2026-10-15T15:35:13-04:00</lastmod>
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      <image:title>a gay man who grew up in phoenix was deported to equatorial guinea and locked up. a federal judge just ordered the government to go get him. at its own expense.</image:title>
      <image:caption>a gay man who grew up in phoenix was deported to equatorial guinea and locked up. a federal judge just ordered the government to go get him. at its own expense.</image:caption>
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  <url>
    <loc>https://gaywater.com/blogs/watering-hole-stories/kenneth-stokes-jackson-councilman-asks-if-petition-critic-is-gay-brian-grizzell-sissy</loc>
    <lastmod>2026-10-14T16:01:34-04:00</lastmod>
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      <image:title>a jackson councilman called a colleague a sissy. when a neighbor petitioned to fine him $500 for it, he asked reporters if she&apos;s gay. twice. be so for real.</image:title>
      <image:caption>a jackson councilman called a colleague a sissy. when a neighbor petitioned to fine him $500 for it, he asked reporters if she&apos;s gay. twice. be so for real.</image:caption>
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  </url>
  <url>
    <loc>https://gaywater.com/blogs/watering-hole-stories/institut-fuer-sexualwissenschaft-berlin-1919</loc>
    <lastmod>2026-10-09T11:26:53-04:00</lastmod>
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  <url>
    <loc>https://gaywater.com/blogs/watering-hole-stories/der-eigene-first-gay-magazine-1896</loc>
    <lastmod>2026-10-08T13:31:59-04:00</lastmod>
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  <url>
    <loc>https://gaywater.com/blogs/watering-hole-stories/annie-andrews-biological-men-ad-trump-slur-darline-graham</loc>
    <lastmod>2026-10-11T16:31:35-04:00</lastmod>
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      <image:loc>https://cdn.shopify.com/s/files/1/0691/4801/6879/articles/97e764683e0f93120b94f7e32c4980be.jpg?v=1791553162</image:loc>
      <image:title>trump called her a trans slur. three days later, the democrat ran an ad saying &quot;biological men.&quot; her 2022 tweet is still up. ok.</image:title>
      <image:caption>trump called her a trans slur. three days later, the democrat ran an ad saying &quot;biological men.&quot; her 2022 tweet is still up. ok.</image:caption>
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  </url>
  <url>
    <loc>https://gaywater.com/blogs/watering-hole-stories/ben-shapiro-daily-wire-pawn-shop-movie-renee-good-ice-livingston-montana</loc>
    <lastmod>2026-10-09T11:26:49-04:00</lastmod>
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      <image:loc>https://cdn.shopify.com/s/files/1/0691/4801/6879/articles/d36075345404bf999013f786cb8fa0d8.jpg?v=1791553166</image:loc>
      <image:title>ben shapiro is making a movie out of the ice shooting of a queer mom. the script calls her &quot;a fat blue-hair.&quot; subtle king.</image:title>
      <image:caption>ben shapiro is making a movie out of the ice shooting of a queer mom. the script calls her &quot;a fat blue-hair.&quot; subtle king.</image:caption>
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  </url>
  <url>
    <loc>https://gaywater.com/blogs/watering-hole-stories/paris-lee-samuel-ward-tennessee-court-new-trial-trans-woman-biological-sex</loc>
    <lastmod>2026-10-09T11:26:46-04:00</lastmod>
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      <image:loc>https://cdn.shopify.com/s/files/1/0691/4801/6879/articles/0da152f2e56f60ca47b341e140ec8dd3.jpg?v=1791553169</image:loc>
      <image:title>a man shot a trans woman six times. a tennessee court says his jury should have been told her &quot;biological sex.&quot; that&apos;s the whole ruling, and it&apos;s bad enough.</image:title>
      <image:caption>a man shot a trans woman six times. a tennessee court says his jury should have been told her &quot;biological sex.&quot; that&apos;s the whole ruling, and it&apos;s bad enough.</image:caption>
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  </url>
  <url>
    <loc>https://gaywater.com/blogs/watering-hole-stories/openly-gay-olympic-gold-medalists</loc>
    <lastmod>2026-10-09T19:57:32-04:00</lastmod>
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      <image:loc>https://cdn.shopify.com/s/files/1/0691/4801/6879/articles/7d519bbf860faeae44c0806017bcc417.jpg?v=1791577144</image:loc>
      <image:title>we counted 15 out gay men with olympic gold. one of them hit his head on the diving board and won anyway. icon behavior.</image:title>
      <image:caption>we counted 15 out gay men with olympic gold. one of them hit his head on the diving board and won anyway. icon behavior.</image:caption>
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  </url>
  <url>
    <loc>https://gaywater.com/blogs/watering-hole-stories/atlanta-pride-2026-saturday-canceled-hurricane-isaias-parade-sunday</loc>
    <lastmod>2026-10-09T17:09:41-04:00</lastmod>
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      <image:loc>https://cdn.shopify.com/s/files/1/0691/4801/6879/articles/55d25e1d5640c22e931b85a50eadc43a.jpg?v=1791578682</image:loc>
      <image:title>a category 3 hurricane canceled saturday at atlanta pride. the parade is still on for sunday. the gays will simply be outside.</image:title>
      <image:caption>a category 3 hurricane canceled saturday at atlanta pride. the parade is still on for sunday. the gays will simply be outside.</image:caption>
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  </url>
  <url>
    <loc>https://gaywater.com/blogs/watering-hole-stories/tim-hardaway-crossover-podcast-i-hate-gay-people-2007-dont-be-a-bigot</loc>
    <lastmod>2026-10-09T19:57:34-04:00</lastmod>
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      <image:loc>https://cdn.shopify.com/s/files/1/0691/4801/6879/articles/302376e59117f581d46a64d61a38518d.jpg?v=1791578686</image:loc>
      <image:title>the nba star who said &quot;i hate gay people&quot; in 2007 says he taught america not to be a bigot. he would also like a bank commercial.</image:title>
      <image:caption>the nba star who said &quot;i hate gay people&quot; in 2007 says he taught america not to be a bigot. he would also like a bank commercial.</image:caption>
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  </url>
  <url>
    <loc>https://gaywater.com/blogs/watering-hole-stories/icc-taliban-arrest-warrants-unsealed-akhundzada-gender-persecution-lgbtq</loc>
    <lastmod>2026-10-09T19:57:29-04:00</lastmod>
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      <image:loc>https://cdn.shopify.com/s/files/1/0691/4801/6879/articles/37c271d0d2e9757db2340f62f7efa6b6.jpg?v=1791578689</image:loc>
      <image:title>the world&apos;s war crimes court wants the taliban&apos;s leaders for persecuting queer afghans. the paperwork calls them &quot;non-conforming.&quot; close enough.</image:title>
      <image:caption>the world&apos;s war crimes court wants the taliban&apos;s leaders for persecuting queer afghans. the paperwork calls them &quot;non-conforming.&quot; close enough.</image:caption>
    </image:image>
  </url>
  <url>
    <loc>https://gaywater.com/blogs/watering-hole-stories/pint-jersey-city-gay-bar-trivia-cornell-7-team-name-host-fired</loc>
    <lastmod>2026-10-15T13:10:22-04:00</lastmod>
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      <image:loc>https://cdn.shopify.com/s/files/1/0691/4801/6879/articles/a93f82cfe1a95dbaf99ee22fff2a85cf.jpg?v=1791581097</image:loc>
      <image:title>a gay bar&apos;s trivia host crowned a rape joke &quot;best team name.&quot; the host is now an ex-host. correct answer.</image:title>
      <image:caption>a gay bar&apos;s trivia host crowned a rape joke &quot;best team name.&quot; the host is now an ex-host. correct answer.</image:caption>
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  </url>
  <url>
    <loc>https://gaywater.com/blogs/watering-hole-stories/troye-sivan-entire-brand-gay-instagram-story-shes-the-best-ff</loc>
    <lastmod>2026-10-09T19:57:33-04:00</lastmod>
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      <image:title>someone said troye sivan&apos;s whole brand is being gay. he replied &quot;i am gay!!!! gay gay gay gay&quot; over madonna&apos;s vogue. no further questions.</image:title>
      <image:caption>someone said troye sivan&apos;s whole brand is being gay. he replied &quot;i am gay!!!! gay gay gay gay&quot; over madonna&apos;s vogue. no further questions.</image:caption>
    </image:image>
  </url>
  <url>
    <loc>https://gaywater.com/blogs/watering-hole-stories/katie-zacharia-white-house-press-secretary-fox-news-what-is-a-woman-obama</loc>
    <lastmod>2026-10-09T19:57:31-04:00</lastmod>
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      <image:loc>https://cdn.shopify.com/s/files/1/0691/4801/6879/articles/eb5b07463c9fab203490adb650fa1afb.jpg?v=1791581103</image:loc>
      <image:title>trump&apos;s new press secretary went on fox last month to ask barack obama &quot;what is a woman.&quot; the podium is hers now. pray for the press corps.</image:title>
      <image:caption>trump&apos;s new press secretary went on fox last month to ask barack obama &quot;what is a woman.&quot; the podium is hers now. pray for the press corps.</image:caption>
    </image:image>
  </url>
  <url>
    <loc>https://gaywater.com/blogs/watering-hole-stories/sydney-colson-white-wnba-players-trans-shut-up-unsupervised-sophie-cunningham</loc>
    <lastmod>2026-10-13T21:32:58-04:00</lastmod>
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      <image:title>a former wnba player had one note for white players with opinions on trans athletes: &quot;nobody wants to hear your opinion.&quot; we&apos;re framing it.</image:title>
      <image:caption>a former wnba player had one note for white players with opinions on trans athletes: &quot;nobody wants to hear your opinion.&quot; we&apos;re framing it.</image:caption>
    </image:image>
  </url>
  <url>
    <loc>https://gaywater.com/blogs/watering-hole-stories/elon-musk-justine-wilson-vivian-health-insurance-gibney-documentary</loc>
    <lastmod>2026-10-11T16:31:26-04:00</lastmod>
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      <image:loc>https://cdn.shopify.com/s/files/1/0691/4801/6879/articles/1b343fa5ad65c92af8d10889bdc2d744.jpg?v=1791634510</image:loc>
      <image:title>elon musk&apos;s first wife says he told their trans daughter &quot;i&apos;ll always love her,&quot; then took her off his health insurance the next day. love is a strong word.</image:title>
      <image:caption>elon musk&apos;s first wife says he told their trans daughter &quot;i&apos;ll always love her,&quot; then took her off his health insurance the next day. love is a strong word.</image:caption>
    </image:image>
  </url>
  <url>
    <loc>https://gaywater.com/blogs/watering-hole-stories/roselle-police-chief-stacey-williams-fired-anti-gay-slur-appellate-division</loc>
    <lastmod>2026-10-13T21:33:01-04:00</lastmod>
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      <image:loc>https://cdn.shopify.com/s/files/1/0691/4801/6879/articles/d881dd7db2f7dc8b28b72c2ec6420047.jpg?v=1791634513</image:loc>
      <image:title>a police chief used an anti-gay slur at work and got a 30-day suspension. two judges said they were &quot;shocked&quot; and gave him his firing back.</image:title>
      <image:caption>a police chief used an anti-gay slur at work and got a 30-day suspension. two judges said they were &quot;shocked&quot; and gave him his firing back.</image:caption>
    </image:image>
  </url>
  <url>
    <loc>https://gaywater.com/blogs/watering-hole-stories/sonoma-valley-high-school-pride-flag-policy-board-vote</loc>
    <lastmod>2026-10-11T16:31:15-04:00</lastmod>
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      <image:title>a california high school&apos;s pride flag has flown every day since 2019. a 3-2 board vote says it now needs permission to come out in june.</image:title>
      <image:caption>a california high school&apos;s pride flag has flown every day since 2019. a 3-2 board vote says it now needs permission to come out in june.</image:caption>
    </image:image>
  </url>
  <url>
    <loc>https://gaywater.com/blogs/watering-hole-stories/carson-kressley-george-hw-bush-drowsy-chaperone-ogunquit-secret-service</loc>
    <lastmod>2026-10-15T13:10:13-04:00</lastmod>
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      <image:loc>https://cdn.shopify.com/s/files/1/0691/4801/6879/articles/51a5dacc876b999ab4a26583299b2d2c.jpg?v=1791634516</image:loc>
      <image:title>carson kressley once performed a whole musical for an audience of bushes and the secret service. his review of the secret service: &quot;super hot.&quot;</image:title>
      <image:caption>carson kressley once performed a whole musical for an audience of bushes and the secret service. his review of the secret service: &quot;super hot.&quot;</image:caption>
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  </url>
  <url>
    <loc>https://gaywater.com/blogs/watering-hole-stories/sherrod-brown-response-ad-soren-aldaco-complete-lie-husted-epstein-files</loc>
    <lastmod>2026-10-11T16:31:21-04:00</lastmod>
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      <image:loc>https://cdn.shopify.com/s/files/1/0691/4801/6879/articles/ad4b86d24710b2847812ead92f868bac.jpg?v=1791648793</image:loc>
      <image:title>republicans spent $10 million telling ohio sherrod brown wants surgery on kids. his reply ad opens with &quot;they&apos;re a complete lie&quot; and ends on epstein. a democrat who hits back. i need to sit down.</image:title>
      <image:caption>republicans spent $10 million telling ohio sherrod brown wants surgery on kids. his reply ad opens with &quot;they&apos;re a complete lie&quot; and ends on epstein. a democrat who hits back. i need to sit down.</image:caption>
    </image:image>
  </url>
  <url>
    <loc>https://gaywater.com/blogs/watering-hole-stories/daniela-fuentes-trans-woman-miami-deported-central-african-republic</loc>
    <lastmod>2026-10-11T16:31:17-04:00</lastmod>
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      <image:loc>https://cdn.shopify.com/s/files/1/0691/4801/6879/articles/ed6487a2f886a073f3ff9036fe19de14.jpg?v=1791648794</image:loc>
      <image:title>a trans hairstylist from miami got deported to a country she had never set foot in. she shares a room with four men there. we are not okay.</image:title>
      <image:caption>a trans hairstylist from miami got deported to a country she had never set foot in. she shares a room with four men there. we are not okay.</image:caption>
    </image:image>
  </url>
  <url>
    <loc>https://gaywater.com/blogs/watering-hole-stories/matthew-lillard-skeet-ulrich-scream-billy-stu-queer-awakening-nycc</loc>
    <lastmod>2026-10-11T16:31:22-04:00</lastmod>
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      <image:loc>https://cdn.shopify.com/s/files/1/0691/4801/6879/articles/cb931ad1c79e9b482ccdbf5b4b522c3a.jpg?v=1791666883</image:loc>
      <image:title>one of the scream killers says strangers keep telling him he was their queer awakening. his answer at comic con has us screaming (sorry).</image:title>
      <image:caption>one of the scream killers says strangers keep telling him he was their queer awakening. his answer at comic con has us screaming (sorry).</image:caption>
    </image:image>
  </url>
  <url>
    <loc>https://gaywater.com/blogs/watering-hole-stories/the-boulevard-pasadena-gay-bar-closing-october-31-steve-terradot</loc>
    <lastmod>2026-10-11T16:31:16-04:00</lastmod>
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      <image:title>pasadena&apos;s only gay bar has one month left and is spending it throwing a halloween party. somebody please buy this bar.</image:title>
      <image:caption>pasadena&apos;s only gay bar has one month left and is spending it throwing a halloween party. somebody please buy this bar.</image:caption>
    </image:image>
  </url>
  <url>
    <loc>https://gaywater.com/blogs/watering-hole-stories/shane-gillis-snl-monologue-youre-either-gay-or-youre-hitler</loc>
    <lastmod>2026-10-15T09:58:29-04:00</lastmod>
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      <image:loc>https://cdn.shopify.com/s/files/1/0691/4801/6879/articles/f9e035a32401c35acec5664d594b4497.jpg?v=1791720831</image:loc>
      <image:title>the comedian snl once fired over gay slurs hosted again and closed on &quot;you&apos;re either gay or you&apos;re hitler.&quot; we&apos;ll take gay. obviously.</image:title>
      <image:caption>the comedian snl once fired over gay slurs hosted again and closed on &quot;you&apos;re either gay or you&apos;re hitler.&quot; we&apos;ll take gay. obviously.</image:caption>
    </image:image>
  </url>
  <url>
    <loc>https://gaywater.com/blogs/watering-hole-stories/chappell-roan-super-graphic-spectacular-lineup-tinashe-amanda-lepore-shrine</loc>
    <lastmod>2026-10-11T16:31:27-04:00</lastmod>
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      <image:loc>https://cdn.shopify.com/s/files/1/0691/4801/6879/articles/5e33575b3df6429be0246c9d5dff7ab6.jpg?v=1791720833</image:loc>
      <image:title>chappell roan put tinashe and amanda lepore on the same night of a benefit for trans kids. i have never wanted to be in los angeles more.</image:title>
      <image:caption>chappell roan put tinashe and amanda lepore on the same night of a benefit for trans kids. i have never wanted to be in los angeles more.</image:caption>
    </image:image>
  </url>
  <url>
    <loc>https://gaywater.com/blogs/watering-hole-stories/mark-latham-alex-greenwich-high-court-special-leave-refused-defamation</loc>
    <lastmod>2026-10-11T16:31:24-04:00</lastmod>
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      <image:loc>https://cdn.shopify.com/s/files/1/0691/4801/6879/articles/e948fb7d1767389e59a627929db9cd06.jpg?v=1791720835</image:loc>
      <image:title>a politician tweeted something filthy about a gay mp, then fought it for three years. australia&apos;s highest court just declined to hear him. bye.</image:title>
      <image:caption>a politician tweeted something filthy about a gay mp, then fought it for three years. australia&apos;s highest court just declined to hear him. bye.</image:caption>
    </image:image>
  </url>
  <url>
    <loc>https://gaywater.com/blogs/the-watering-hole/coming-out-day-troye-sivan-gay-gay-gay-gay-watering-hole-34</loc>
    <lastmod>2026-10-11T10:05:58-04:00</lastmod>
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      <image:title>happy coming out day. troye sivan said it best: gay gay gay gay.</image:title>
      <image:caption>An open wardrobe spilling a rainbow beside a turntable and a disco ball</image:caption>
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  </url>
  <url>
    <loc>https://gaywater.com/blogs/watering-hole-stories/scott-stadthagen-alabama-gop-trans-candidates-mental-disorders-terri-osborne-allison-montgomery</loc>
    <lastmod>2026-10-15T13:10:11-04:00</lastmod>
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      <image:title>alabama&apos;s republican chair says two trans women on the ballot have &quot;mental disorders.&quot; one of them has paperwork saying she&apos;s of sound mind. does he?</image:title>
      <image:caption>alabama&apos;s republican chair says two trans women on the ballot have &quot;mental disorders.&quot; one of them has paperwork saying she&apos;s of sound mind. does he?</image:caption>
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    <loc>https://gaywater.com/blogs/watering-hole-stories/best-gay-books-2026</loc>
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      <image:title>the 10 gay novels that mattered in 2026 so far. two are up for the booker. one is already an A24 show.</image:title>
      <image:caption>Covers of ten gay novels published in 2026</image:caption>
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  <url>
    <loc>https://gaywater.com/blogs/the-watering-hole/best-of-gay-twitter-vol-55</loc>
    <lastmod>2026-10-12T17:03:03-04:00</lastmod>
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    <loc>https://gaywater.com/blogs/watering-hole-stories/trump-youngstown-rally-jon-husted-ass-claws-jawline</loc>
    <lastmod>2026-10-13T21:32:53-04:00</lastmod>
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      <image:title>trump told an ohio rally he &quot;looked at&quot; a senator&apos;s ass, then came back 40 minutes later for the jawline. sir, this is a rally.</image:title>
      <image:caption>trump told an ohio rally he &quot;looked at&quot; a senator&apos;s ass, then came back 40 minutes later for the jawline. sir, this is a rally.</image:caption>
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    <loc>https://gaywater.com/blogs/watering-hole-stories/lucian-piane-dies-46-rupauls-drag-race-music-sissy-that-walk</loc>
    <lastmod>2026-10-13T21:32:48-04:00</lastmod>
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      <image:title>the man who wrote &quot;sissy that walk&quot; with rupaul has died at 46. we&apos;ll be playing it loud today.</image:title>
      <image:caption>the man who wrote &quot;sissy that walk&quot; with rupaul has died at 46. we&apos;ll be playing it loud today.</image:caption>
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  <url>
    <loc>https://gaywater.com/blogs/watering-hole-stories/mark-indelicato-david-watson-wedding-jean-smart-officiates-hacks</loc>
    <lastmod>2026-10-15T13:10:04-04:00</lastmod>
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      <image:title>jean smart officiated her hacks co-star&apos;s wedding and pronounced them &quot;husband and husband.&quot; i would like to be married by her immediately.</image:title>
      <image:caption>jean smart officiated her hacks co-star&apos;s wedding and pronounced them &quot;husband and husband.&quot; i would like to be married by her immediately.</image:caption>
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  <url>
    <loc>https://gaywater.com/blogs/watering-hole-stories/javier-bardem-skyfall-silva-bond-gay-scene-his-idea-sam-mendes-bfi</loc>
    <lastmod>2026-10-15T13:10:02-04:00</lastmod>
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      <image:title>javier bardem says the skyfall scene where the villain feels up james bond was his idea. we owe this man everything.</image:title>
      <image:caption>javier bardem says the skyfall scene where the villain feels up james bond was his idea. we owe this man everything.</image:caption>
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  <url>
    <loc>https://gaywater.com/blogs/watering-hole-stories/todd-haynes-de-noche-pedro-pascal-danny-ramirez-r-rated-not-nc-17</loc>
    <lastmod>2026-10-13T21:32:45-04:00</lastmod>
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      <image:title>todd haynes once promised us an nc-17 gay romance. with pedro pascal in it, it&apos;s now &quot;most likely&quot; r. i&apos;m being so brave about this.</image:title>
      <image:caption>todd haynes once promised us an nc-17 gay romance. with pedro pascal in it, it&apos;s now &quot;most likely&quot; r. i&apos;m being so brave about this.</image:caption>
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  <url>
    <loc>https://gaywater.com/blogs/watering-hole-stories/hungary-parliament-repeals-orban-child-protection-law-lgbtq-139-51</loc>
    <lastmod>2026-10-13T21:32:44-04:00</lastmod>
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      <image:title>hungary used to wrap gay kids&apos; books in black plastic. parliament just voted 139 to 51 to take it off. unwrap them.</image:title>
      <image:caption>hungary used to wrap gay kids&apos; books in black plastic. parliament just voted 139 to 51 to take it off. unwrap them.</image:caption>
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  <url>
    <loc>https://gaywater.com/blogs/watering-hole-stories/wood-tv-nexstar-pride-memo-stanton-tang-amy-fox-4-million-jury-verdict</loc>
    <lastmod>2026-10-15T13:09:58-04:00</lastmod>
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      <image:title>two tv news bosses got fired over a memo saying pride needed &quot;both sides.&quot; a jury gave them $4 million. read the fine print before you scream.</image:title>
      <image:caption>two tv news bosses got fired over a memo saying pride needed &quot;both sides.&quot; a jury gave them $4 million. read the fine print before you scream.</image:caption>
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  <url>
    <loc>https://gaywater.com/blogs/watering-hole-stories/fewer-teens-identify-lgb-ninth-graders-cdc-yrbs-jean-twenge</loc>
    <lastmod>2026-10-15T13:09:53-04:00</lastmod>
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      <image:title>fewer ninth graders say they&apos;re gay or bi. the researcher who found it says she has &quot;no idea&quot; why. the right already knows, apparently.</image:title>
      <image:caption>fewer ninth graders say they&apos;re gay or bi. the researcher who found it says she has &quot;no idea&quot; why. the right already knows, apparently.</image:caption>
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  <url>
    <loc>https://gaywater.com/blogs/watering-hole-stories/jd-vance-james-talarico-gay-joke-tyler-rally-totally-platonic</loc>
    <lastmod>2026-10-13T21:32:41-04:00</lastmod>
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      <image:title>the vice president told a texas rally he loves a man &quot;in a totally platonic way&quot; because he&apos;s &quot;not james talarico.&quot; no homo, said the second most powerful man on earth.</image:title>
      <image:caption>the vice president told a texas rally he loves a man &quot;in a totally platonic way&quot; because he&apos;s &quot;not james talarico.&quot; no homo, said the second most powerful man on earth.</image:caption>
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  <url>
    <loc>https://gaywater.com/blogs/watering-hole-stories/trump-sophie-cunningham-beautiful-attendance-youngstown-rally</loc>
    <lastmod>2026-10-15T15:34:37-04:00</lastmod>
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      <image:title>trump&apos;s big save-women&apos;s-sports moment was telling a rally a wnba player is on the team &quot;to help you with attendance.&quot; girl, run.</image:title>
      <image:caption>trump&apos;s big save-women&apos;s-sports moment was telling a rally a wnba player is on the team &quot;to help you with attendance.&quot; girl, run.</image:caption>
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  <url>
    <loc>https://gaywater.com/blogs/watering-hole-stories/pride-amsterdam-arson-centraal-station-changing-room-terrorism-hearing</loc>
    <lastmod>2026-10-15T13:09:55-04:00</lastmod>
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      <image:title>a man set fire to a pride changing room in amsterdam. prosecutors now call it terrorism, and €750 landed in his account that day marked &quot;gift.&quot; we have questions.</image:title>
      <image:caption>a man set fire to a pride changing room in amsterdam. prosecutors now call it terrorism, and €750 landed in his account that day marked &quot;gift.&quot; we have questions.</image:caption>
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  <url>
    <loc>https://gaywater.com/blogs/watering-hole-stories/jesse-watters-trump-jon-husted-ass-sounds-a-little-gay-the-five</loc>
    <lastmod>2026-10-14T15:34:31-04:00</lastmod>
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      <image:title>jesse watters says trump talking about men&apos;s asses sounds &quot;a little gay,&quot; but it&apos;s fine because he&apos;s straight. sir, that is how it starts.</image:title>
      <image:caption>jesse watters says trump talking about men&apos;s asses sounds &quot;a little gay,&quot; but it&apos;s fine because he&apos;s straight. sir, that is how it starts.</image:caption>
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  </url>
  <url>
    <loc>https://gaywater.com/blogs/watering-hole-stories/heated-rivalry-full-frontal-jacob-tierney-connor-storrie-hudson-williams-season-2-six-episodes</loc>
    <lastmod>2026-10-14T15:34:30-04:00</lastmod>
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      <image:title>the heated rivalry creator says the line on nudity was his, not the actors&apos;: &quot;I&apos;m not showing your dicks.&quot; we would like to file a complaint.</image:title>
      <image:caption>the heated rivalry creator says the line on nudity was his, not the actors&apos;: &quot;I&apos;m not showing your dicks.&quot; we would like to file a complaint.</image:caption>
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  <url>
    <loc>https://gaywater.com/blogs/watering-hole-stories/holland-taylor-sarah-paulson-work-together-creepy-today-show</loc>
    <lastmod>2026-10-15T13:09:49-04:00</lastmod>
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      <image:title>holland taylor was asked if she&apos;d ever work with sarah paulson. &quot;wouldn&apos;t it be creepy?&quot; she asked paulson, who said &quot;kinda.&quot; love is knowing.</image:title>
      <image:caption>holland taylor was asked if she&apos;d ever work with sarah paulson. &quot;wouldn&apos;t it be creepy?&quot; she asked paulson, who said &quot;kinda.&quot; love is knowing.</image:caption>
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  <url>
    <loc>https://gaywater.com/blogs/watering-hole-stories/ronan-farrow-grindr-ai-training-photos-default-opt-out-gai-edge</loc>
    <lastmod>2026-10-14T15:34:27-04:00</lastmod>
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      <image:title>ronan farrow says grindr is training its ai on your photos by default. go to settings. we&apos;ll wait.</image:title>
      <image:caption>ronan farrow says grindr is training its ai on your photos by default. go to settings. we&apos;ll wait.</image:caption>
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  <url>
    <loc>https://gaywater.com/blogs/the-watering-hole/trump-husted-ass-vance-talarico-jesse-watters-no-homo-index-watering-hole-35</loc>
    <lastmod>2026-10-14T10:37:57-04:00</lastmod>
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      <image:title>the president looked at a senator&apos;s ass. the vice president is not gay. we measured.</image:title>
      <image:caption>A rally podium with binoculars on it beside a gauge whose needle is pinned past the maximum</image:caption>
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  </url>
  <url>
    <loc>https://gaywater.com/blogs/watering-hole-stories/kacey-musgraves-kristi-noem-dog-tweet-talarico-paxton-ella-langley</loc>
    <lastmod>2026-10-15T09:57:55-04:00</lastmod>
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      <image:title>kristi noem came for kacey musgraves. kacey brought up the dog. we need a minute.</image:title>
      <image:caption>kristi noem came for kacey musgraves. kacey brought up the dog. we need a minute.</image:caption>
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  <url>
    <loc>https://gaywater.com/blogs/watering-hole-stories/chick-fil-a-ceo-andrew-cathy-lgbtq-rights-today-craig-melvin</loc>
    <lastmod>2026-10-15T13:09:46-04:00</lastmod>
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      <image:title>today asked chick-fil-a&apos;s ceo three times where the company stands on gay rights. he answered with a sandwich every time. honestly? commitment.</image:title>
      <image:caption>today asked chick-fil-a&apos;s ceo three times where the company stands on gay rights. he answered with a sandwich every time. honestly? commitment.</image:caption>
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  <url>
    <loc>https://gaywater.com/blogs/watering-hole-stories/grand-prairie-isd-cancels-little-shop-of-horrors-girl-cast-as-seymour</loc>
    <lastmod>2026-10-15T09:57:50-04:00</lastmod>
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      <image:title>a texas school canceled little shop of horrors because a girl was cast as seymour. the man-eating plant was never the problem.</image:title>
      <image:caption>a texas school canceled little shop of horrors because a girl was cast as seymour. the man-eating plant was never the problem.</image:caption>
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  <url>
    <loc>https://gaywater.com/blogs/watering-hole-stories/dade-phelan-anti-trans-ads-not-resonating-paxton-talarico-texas-monthly</loc>
    <lastmod>2026-10-15T09:57:48-04:00</lastmod>
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      <image:title>texas&apos; former republican house speaker says $100 million in anti-trans ads moved nothing. we could have told them for free.</image:title>
      <image:caption>texas&apos; former republican house speaker says $100 million in anti-trans ads moved nothing. we could have told them for free.</image:caption>
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  </url>
  <url>
    <loc>https://gaywater.com/blogs/watering-hole-stories/judge-ana-reyes-hegseth-ten-written-questions-transgender-troops-talbott</loc>
    <lastmod>2026-10-15T09:57:46-04:00</lastmod>
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      <image:title>a federal judge gave pete hegseth ten homework questions about trans troops. show your work, pete.</image:title>
      <image:caption>a federal judge gave pete hegseth ten homework questions about trans troops. show your work, pete.</image:caption>
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  </url>
  <url>
    <loc>https://gaywater.com/blogs/watering-hole-stories/texas-texts-trans-kids-bathroom-guide-tent-denies-sending-jeff-leach-paxton</loc>
    <lastmod>2026-10-15T13:09:41-04:00</lastmod>
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      <image:title>texas voters got a &apos;back to school&apos; guide for trans kids in the middle of october. the trans group says it never sent it. curious.</image:title>
      <image:caption>texas voters got a &apos;back to school&apos; guide for trans kids in the middle of october. the trans group says it never sent it. curious.</image:caption>
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  </url>
  <url>
    <loc>https://gaywater.com/blogs/watering-hole-stories/kendall-jenner-cara-delevingne-lesbian-rumor-men-suck-the-kardashians</loc>
    <lastmod>2026-10-15T13:09:39-04:00</lastmod>
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      <image:title>kendall jenner told cara delevingne she&apos;s not a lesbian, then said &quot;men suck.&quot; we&apos;ll allow it.</image:title>
      <image:caption>kendall jenner told cara delevingne she&apos;s not a lesbian, then said &quot;men suck.&quot; we&apos;ll allow it.</image:caption>
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  </url>
  <url>
    <loc>https://gaywater.com/blogs/watering-hole-stories/red-white-royal-wedding-rated-r-sexual-content-nudity-galitzine-zakhar-perez</loc>
    <lastmod>2026-10-15T13:09:36-04:00</lastmod>
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      <image:title>the first red, white &amp; royal blue had &quot;partial nudity.&quot; the sequel&apos;s rating just dropped the word &quot;partial.&quot; we&apos;re seated.</image:title>
      <image:caption>the first red, white &amp; royal blue had &quot;partial nudity.&quot; the sequel&apos;s rating just dropped the word &quot;partial.&quot; we&apos;re seated.</image:caption>
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  <url>
    <loc>https://gaywater.com/blogs/watering-hole-stories/miss-bouvee-miami-beach-rainbow-crosswalk-bricks-pride-key-west-naples</loc>
    <lastmod>2026-10-15T13:09:32-04:00</lastmod>
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      <image:title>florida ripped up miami beach&apos;s rainbow crosswalk. a drag queen bought 50 of the bricks and is selling them to fund pride. iconic behavior.</image:title>
      <image:caption>florida ripped up miami beach&apos;s rainbow crosswalk. a drag queen bought 50 of the bricks and is selling them to fund pride. iconic behavior.</image:caption>
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  </url>
  <url>
    <loc>https://gaywater.com/blogs/watering-hole-stories/camas-cross-country-walk-off-transgender-runner-anzalone-reykdal-i-638</loc>
    <lastmod>2026-10-15T15:34:21-04:00</lastmod>
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      <image:title>a dozen girls walked off a cross-country course to protest one trans teammate. fox says a &quot;state superintendent&quot; backed them. wrong guy.</image:title>
      <image:caption>a dozen girls walked off a cross-country course to protest one trans teammate. fox says a &quot;state superintendent&quot; backed them. wrong guy.</image:caption>
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  </url>
  <url>
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